About 25% of all 40-year-olds have skipped the wedding march. Quite a leap from a modest 6% in the 1980's! This dance around the importance of getting married keeps changing.
The Gottman Method offers fresh beats for this dance. Our societal song has three unique verses:
Marriage research, without the influence of moral judgments, sheds light on the benefits: married individuals often live longer lives, have improved mental health, and have greater financial stability. It's a harmonious dance with positive rhythms, but only if dancers follow Gottman's advice and listen to each other's melodies.
The marital dance sees more solo movers. But through Gottman's lens, it's not about lonely blues but finding the right groove. For half a century, Gottman's famous studies have crafted a toolbox. It's filled with nifty tricks anyone can use. They help us tune into each other, and harmonize better. A timeless rhythm for the dance of life. So whether seen as a freedom song or a solitary tune, it's all about the richness of connection, understanding, and the dance of relationships.
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