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Conflict is inevitable, but how you handle it is essential. This collection of resources has been curated specifically to help you and your partner fight right and deepen your connection.

Fight Smarter, Love Deeper

You're not alone.

Even happy couples argue, but how you fight has a direct and profound impact on the health of your relationship. 

  • Learn how successful couples turn conflict into connection
  • Create deeper connection and manage conflicts with more ease
  • From Drs John and Julie Gottman, the authors of 'Fight Right' and numerous acclaimed relationship bestsellers

Stop making the same relationship-damaging mistakes over and over. This powerful knowledge is available in one convenient online content bundle.

Gottman has helped millions of couples around the world improve their relationships.

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Stop Fighting About the Same Things

Turn perpetual problems and gridlock into closeness. Fix common mistakes that sabotage relationships and stop taking stress out on each other for good.


Cut Out the Endless Bickering

Learn how to bring up touchy topics without escalation. Start expressing your needs and learn the right way to respond when your partner is upset.


Learn How to Heal Together

Get a step-by-step guide to repairing and processing arguments so you can heal and restore intimacy. Plus, uncover possible hidden factors fueling your fights.

Discover the Conflict Resolution Bundle

Embark on a journey to transform your relationship with our Conflict Resolution Bundle. Based on over 50 years of pioneering research on thousands of couples, this online coach bundle gives you the science-based techniques you need to start fighting—and making up—the right way.

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