Millions trust the Gottmans to advise them on their relationship
Imagine having the wisdom of renowned relationship experts, Drs. John and Julie Gottman, right at your fingertips, ready to support you on your journey to a stronger, more fulfilling relationship. With the Gottman Relationship Adviser, that's exactly what you get.
Keep the proven Gottman Method in your pocket, available any time you need it. Let the world’s leading love experts guide you through interactive quizzes and exercises, informative videos, and insightful results all designed for you to focus on the most important relationship in your life.
With the Gottman Relationship Adviser, you're not just navigating relationship challenges—you're unlocking the full potential of your connection, one positive step at a time.
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Transform your relationship with the Gottman Relationship Adviser. No waitlists. No insurance approvals. Just an unrivaled, digital, self-paced journey to relationship wellness. Take it alone or with your partner to gain valuable insights and techniques to improve your connection.
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Gottman Relationship Adviser
Your blueprint to more love, joy, intimacy, connection, long-term fulfillment and a bond that lasts a lifetime.
The first ever assessment + personalized solution
Analyze your connection and receive a tailored relationship-building solution, just for you.
100+ question scientific self-assessment
Examine five key relationship areas: friendship and intimacy, sex and passion, conflict management, shared meaning, and trust and commitment.
Measure relationship happiness
Generate an overall relationship satisfaction score and discover your unique strengths and weaknesses.
Personalized digital plan
Start a tailored step-by-step program to improve your connection. Explore research-based exercises, videos, and techniques created by the experts.
Take it alone or together
Invite your partner for more detailed results.
A complete relationship wellness tool
Powered by the renowned Gottman Method and 50+ years of research, proven to help millions of couples all over the world
Get help and change your life, no matter what challenges or adventures you're experiencing.
- Constant fighting and negativity
- Drifting apart or boredom
- Lack of intimacy and sex
- Commitment issues
- Infidelity and betrayal
- Taking the next step
- Having more fun together
- Creating sexual safety
- Loss of trust
- Money issues
- Achieving relationship goals together
- Getting to know your partner better
- Loss of connection
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Frequently Asked Questions
Common questions answered below. More help: Gottman Support Center.
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What is the Gottman Relationship Adviser?
The Adviser is an unparalleled approach to relationship wellness. Measure your relationship health with a research-based self-assessment, analyze key areas of your partnership to identify your strengths and weaknesses, then start a tailored, step-by-step digital program proven to heal and strengthen your connection. Improve your relationship on your schedule, from anywhere.
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What is the Gottman Relationship Coach?
The Gottman Relationship Coach is a self-guided program based on the popular Gottman Method. the Coach is an inspiring and educational multimedia experience created and designed by Drs. John and Julie Gottman to enhance and transform the wellbeing of relationships. Participants access research-based relationship skill-building tools in a series of interactive videos, exercises, and card decks designed to inspire healthy communication and deeper connection.
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What is the difference between the Gottman Relationship Adviser and the Coach programs?
Whereas the Gottman Relationship Coach products address specific areas of your relationship you select, the Gottman Relationship Adviser is a complete relationship wellness program. The Adviser takes the guesswork out of improving your relationship by combining assessment and solutions all in one place. Start with a checkup to find out what you can improve, then follow a personalized, step-by-step plan for your relationship.
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How does the Gottman Relationship Adviser analyze and explain my relationship?
The Adviser uses the Sound Relationship House Theory, created by world-renowned psychologists Drs. John and Julie Gottman. The Sound Relationship House is a foundational concept within Gottman Method and has been used successfully with hundreds of thousands of couples all over the world to help them understand and improve their relationships.
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If I have purchased the Gottman Assessment or a Coach program, can I still experience the Gottman Relationship Adviser?
Yes, customers can benefit from taking the Gottman Relationship Adviser. The Gottman Relationship Adviser will give you a full snapshot of the state of your relationship based on a detailed self-assessment, then provides recommendations for improvement. You will also get credit for your original purchase at checkout, just login before you check out.
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Do I have to take the Gottman Relationship Adviser with my partner?
No, you have the option to take the Gottman Relationship Adviser with or without your partner. You can take the Gottman Relationship Adviser alone to learn about yourself and your relationship, or you can invite your partner to take the Adviser as well, even after starting your own self-assessment. After you log in and invite your partner, they can access the Relationship Adviser by registering on Gottman Connect. Once they register, they will have the option to complete the self-assessment to receive their own custom relationship results..
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Will my partner and I receive separate results?
Yes, you and your partner complete your own self-assessment and receive separate results based on your unique answers.
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What does the assessment portion of the Gottman Relationship Adviser measure?
The Gottman Relationship Adviser can help you gain insight into your overall relationship health, friendship and intimacy, romance, sex, and passion, how you manage conflict, your shared meaning, trust, commitment, and more.
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What if my partner and I decide we need to see a therapist after taking the Gottman Relationship Adviser?
You can find a Gottman-trained therapist on The Gottman Referral Network. This Network of experienced clinicians are certified the Gottman Method-based relationship-building techniques and can use your assessments and work with the Adviser or Coaches to help you get on the pathway to a healthy, long-lasting relationship more quickly.