Gottman Assessment

Find Out What's Really Going on

Understand what the strengths and weaknesses are in your relationship.
Get you the help you need.

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A virtual relationship evaluation tool for couples

Arguing about the same things over and over and not sure what the problem really is? Or maybe you just want to learn more about the state of your partnership? The Gottman Assessment, powered by the renowned, research-based Gottman Method, can help you evaluate what is really going on in your relationship, and then recommend solutions proven to strengthen your connection.

Based on 50+ years of science

Scientific self-assessment
Measures five key relationship areas: friendship and intimacy, sex and passion, conflict management, shared meaning, and trust and commitment.

100+ research-based questions
Designed to analyze your relationship’s unique strengths and weaknesses.

Measure relationship happiness
With an overall relationship satisfaction score.

Take it alone or together
Invite your partner for more detailed results.

Results can be used with the Gottman Relationship Adviser
Once you've taken the Assessment, you're almost there! All your responses are saved and ready to shape your unique roadmap. 

Just log into your Gottman Connect account to transition seamlessly. We’ll deduct the price difference from your purchase, use your Assessment responses to shape your program, and guide you through each exercise.

$45 - Buy Now 


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Additional Gottman products designed to help your relationship thrive

The Gottman name is synonymous with building healthy and lasting relationships.

Sort our programs based on what you are looking for help with.


How to Fight Right: the Complete Guide

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This collection will help you discover how to resolve conflict and foster a stronger, more harmonious relationship.  Includes Dealing with Conflict & Making Up After and Argument.

$298 $149

All About Conflict
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The Complete Guide to Intimacy

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All About Intimacy will enhance emotional and physical connection, reignite passion, and create a bond that lasts. Includes Loving Out Loud, Enriching Your Sex Life & Feeling Seen and Heard.

$298 $149

All About Intimacy
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The Complete Guide to Love and Commitment

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Building a Life Together, How to Make Your Relationship Work and Loving Out Loud will strengthen your love, deepen trust & commitment, & build a strong foundation to last a lifetime. 

$298 $149

All About Love

Get a Checkup and Personalized Plan

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Your blueprint to more love, joy, intimacy, and connection, the Gottman Relationship Adviser analyzes every aspect of your relationship, then develops a plan just for you.

$250 $199

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Connecting through Conflict

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Dealing with Conflict will help you uncover the reasons your partner is upset, how to compromise when there seems to be no hope. Includes the "Rapoport exercise" a proven therapist's method.

$149 $99

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Reboot Your Sex Life

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Enriching Your Sex Life can help you express fantasies without fear, communicate about sensuality, learn each other’s preferences  and eroticism and build physical and emotional safety.

$79 $49

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Say Yes to Forever

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Learn how to navigate a path towards making them come true with Building a Life Together. Cultivate trust and commitment, find joy in shared experiences, and embrace fun and playfulness.

$149 $99

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Your Relationship Pillars

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Avoid harmful communication patterns that predict divorce with 98% accuracy with How to Make Your Relationship Work. Take intentional steps towards a happy, lasting connection today.

$119 $79

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Make Each Other Feel Seen

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Never feel invisible with Feeling Seen and Heard. Develop real skills to navigate difficult conversations, build trust, create honest and effective communication and become great listeners.

$149 $99

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Reflecting and Making Up

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Making Up After an Argument features  “Five Steps After a Fight”, how to calm yourself when you’re overwhelmed during an argument, and how to process and make up the right way.

$149 $99

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Love Each Other Better

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Loving Out Loud will teach you core Gottman relationship principles and tools to help you love each other better and apply these principles to your unique relationship.

$69 $39

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Frequently Asked Questions

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