You hear people say, “wow they’re so lucky they found each other”. When really, it’s because they found each other and turned it into something amazing. They nurtured their relationship over time.
So what can you do to be one of the lucky ones? One key Gottman principle is building a culture of appreciation and admiration. Expressing gratitude and recognizing the positive qualities in your partner every day can strengthen your bond and create a foundation of mutual respect.
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I appreciate you doing drop-off today so I could prepare for my big meeting.
I love that you always bring me flowers when I’m sad.
I admire your work ethic, you work so hard and I am so proud of you!
Thank you for always being there for me when I need to talk things through.
It's not luck alone that creates something extraordinary. It's the deliberate choice to invest in each other, appreciate each other, and turn a chance encounter into a lifelong partnership filled with love and joy.
