Let Your Love Shine
How to Make Your Relationship Work will teach you core Gottman relationship principles like The Four Horsemen of the Apocalypse and The Sound Relationship House, so you can take intentional steps towards knowing each other and deepening your friendship to secure a happy, lasting connection.
Includes16 Proven Ways to Make Your Relationship Work
- Gentle Start-up
- Use “I” Statements
- Complain Without Blame
- Make and Accept Repair Attempts
- Show the Respect You Expect
- Focus On Positive Qualities Your Partner Has
- Practice Gratitude Every Day
- Show Affection and Commitment
- Accept Responsibility for Your Actions
- Share the Load With Your Partner
- Learn How to Listen
- Make Intentional Changes in Behavior
- Stop and Take a Break
- Focus On Self-Soothing
- Improve Communication
- Turn Towards Your Partner
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