Charting Your Love Maps
Gottman research has found that emotionally intelligent couples are intimately familiar with each other’s worlds.
This is what we call having a richly detailed Love Map: the term for that part of your brain where you store all the personally important information about your partner’s life.
It’s that simple: knowing the little things about your partner’s inner world creates a strong foundation for your friendship and intimacy.
Love Maps are your ongoing and ever-evolving understanding of your partner. You should update your Love Maps regularly.
To test your knowledge of your Love Maps for your partner, fill out this quiz below and receive an email with your results that you can forward to your partner and ask them to do the same. Also includes a PDF download version.
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